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I have a question- lately, people on my dash are claiming that straight trans* individuals are not allowed to use the word queer, and that a straight trans* person using the word is appropriating. What do you think of this?
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Zak: I’m not an expert on this by any means, although I guess I’ll take a shot at this. The definition that I’ve most often heard attached to queer is anything that is not heteronormative. I don’t think that being a straight trans* person necessarily excludes or includes someone in that definition, and that it is their call. In that sense, I do not thing it is appropriative for them to use that word. Queer is much more than just who you are attracted to or who you date, it’s often taken on as a political identity. From what I understand, part of the whole point of queer is that it is about openness and fluidity instead of strict boundaries. 

I guess by some people’s definitions I would be a straight trans* guy, and I identify myself as queer, so I’m a little biased in answering this. This is just my opinion, though. 

Adrian: I agree with much of what Zak has to say. I think that another aspect to being queer is having a non-linear history of your identity, or some aspect of your identity. I think that transpeople  embody this aspect of being queer, all of us do. I’m not saying that we all have to identify as queer or claim the word affectionately, but we should all have the option to do so if we please. I understand that appropriation is a bad and hurtful thing and we should all be mindful of the damage it can cause, but I really think that this may be pushing it too far. Identity policing is also a bad and hurtful thing. Echoing what Zak said, I am read as a straight linearly-male (having always been male) person, but I am most certainly queer and I identify as such passionately. 

Posted on Monday, February 20 2012. Tagged with: queerlgbtqtrans*
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  1. the-brazen-minimalist said: For people who don’t want society to tell them how they should identify…some can sure make a lot of rules on said identities. Absurd.
  2. greyjing said: So straight trans* people - if they pass - have the OPTION of not ID’ing as queer. That’s a privilege for sure. But unlike many other privileges it doesn’t exclude you from taking on queerness, because trans* by itself is non-normative, period. /2c
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  5. micahmaddox said: I would even go so far as allowing someone who is heterosexual and cisgender to identify as “queer, ” so long as they embody the mentality of being Nonheteronormative. If they believe gender and sexuality are separate and fluid and are accepting and affirming and…
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  9. thosewholimpgonotbackward said: People can be cisgendered and heterosexual and queer… “straight” is, by definition, an exclusive category. Queer is everything straight isn’t. I don’t think calling yourself queer is appropriation. I knew I was queer way before I knew I was gay.
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  11. neonxxninja said: My understanding of “queer” has always been that it encompasses the entirety of the rainbow-children. They’re absolutely not appropriating. My boyfriend is trans*, likes FAABs but doesn’t identify as straight because of the heteronormative subtext
  12. mbkm said: People really think straight trans* people are a privileged population trying to appropriate a label so they seem less so? Please. I’m a trans* guy with a boyfriend and I don’t feel at all threatened by a straight trans* guy who identifies as queer.
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  15. skylark11 said: i see nothing wrong with simply letting folks identify as how they feel most comfortable with; there is a tricky line when people start de-legitimatizing folks’ identities. how inclusive is that?
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