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April 2012

This might be an odd question, but do you guys know of any fraternities that are open to transmen? I'm a pre-everything senior in high school (although I'm sometimes called 'sir') and not really the fraternity type, but I've always been curious and have considered them before (mostly in daydreams). I know of a few that are now mostly defunct and Alpha Omega Nu, a transmen-only fraternity, but I was curious about frats with both cis- and transmen, and what you guys (and followers) think of them.

Zak: Both Adrian and I went to a small school with only a moderate Greek presence, so there are a lot of fraternities we don’t have any experience with or know about. Both of us were encouraged to rush different frats at different times by guys who knew that we were trans*, with some of them mentioning that even though it was against the rules of the national organization, they would be okay with overlooking that. Because of that, we do know that some fraternities have it in their national by-laws that members have to have been born male (this is the case for Alpha Tau Omega for sure, probably some others too). Some chapters might still be cool with letting you rush, though, while others might be more concerned the potential repercussions of breaking that rule. If you are stealth, you also could probably rush without being concerned about those rules. So, you can start by reading up on the different frats and seeing what, if any, kind of rules they have regarding trans* guys.

I don’t know of any specific fraternities (other than Alpha Omega Nu) that have a reputation of being particularly open to trans* guys, and frats vary a lot school by school, though, and so I think the best thing to do is feel out the specific guys at the chapters you’re looking to join. I do know of a couple of trans* guys who have rushed and been very happy fitting into a Greek organization, but the main thing that made it a positive experience for them was that they liked the specific guys in the organization that they joined. 

Mar 31, 20128 notes
#fraternities #frats #ftm

March 2012

How A Shirt Should Fit → primermagazine.com
Mar 31, 201249 notes
#menswear #fit #fashion
Do you have any recommendations for trans men who may want to wear earrings?

Adrian: We always say express yourself the way you want. That being said, I know a TON of cisguys who wear earrings. Most of them stretch their ears ( I apologize if I am using the wrong wording for this process, I know the community of people who stretch their ears with gauged jewelry are particular about the words used to describe the process so any critique for me is welcomed!) It is totally socially acceptable to wear earrings as a man in society, even cartilage and tragus piercings. We say try it out and if it’s affirming for you, keep doing it!

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Men's Fashion Basics: Re-introducing Shorts → fashionbeans.com

From the article:

Men’s Shorts Guidelines
  1. Nail the fit – this is the biggest problem with guys and shorts. Most men seem to pick the baggiest, roomiest pair they can find, which is rather unflattering. Instead, you should be looking for a pair that fits you well in the rear/thighs and that ends around an inch above the knee.
  2. Keep it simple – both in regards to accessories and colour. If it’s your first venture into proper shorts, then stick to neutrals such as white, navy, grey and beige. Reds, greens and yellows are still fair game but will be easier to work into a look if kept in a pastel tone and a solid block colour. As for stupid toggles, zips and pull-cords… just don’t. Nothing will make you look more lacking in style than some shorts that look like you were confused about how to put your own parachute on.
  3. Bigger picture – always bear in mind what you’re going to be wearing with your shorts. Often it’s all too easy to get caught up in the awe of your new pink ones (or an old pair you forgot about) and then throw on whatever’s close to hand on your way out. Try to pay attention to the colours and the cut of the other pieces you pair them with, and make sure they both compliment your shorts.
  4. Confidence – some guys shy away from shorts for the fear of showing too much leg. As long as you stick to the standard length and fit mentioned above, it’ll be fine. Show some courage and go for it.
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Prom Tips for Guys! → teenadvice.about.com

‘tis the season yall.

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Re: social dysphoria. Did you experience it a lot BEFORE you transitioned? Because while I have some amount of body dysphoria, the majority of my uncomfortableness comes from being read as, thought of, and treated as female. It got to the point where I couldn't date people because I was subconsciously not okay with being seen as female, and that was one of the major signs to me that I might be trans, rather than "I really hate my breasts" or "I really want a penis."

Zak: Personally I felt a LOT of social dysphoria before I transitioned, but it expresses itself differently now that I am primarily viewed as male in society (so now it is more like I’m trying to become more comfortable in/get used to my new social role). I think transitioning socially can really help with those things, and you might be one of the people who finds being accepted as male as a more important goal than physical changes. I think dysphoria can be experienced in a lot of different ways, and there are a lot of ways of dealing with it. Not being okay with being viewed as female is certainly a valid reason to label yourself as trans*. 

Mar 30, 201212 notes
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Mar 29, 201226 notes
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9 Facts about the Sexual and Reproductive Health Needs of Transgender Individuals

ryansallans:

The National Center for Transgender Equality #NCTE has just released a sheet that lists 9 facts about sexual and reproductive health related to transgender individuals. This is one of the many areas that I am the most passionate about, getting people into providers, and having these providers trained to competently serve the community. If you are starting conversations with organizations or providers desiring to learn more and spread more knowledge, perhaps these 9 facts will be a way to get through the door. 

In celebration of National LGBT Health Awareness Week, NCTE has released this preview of a fact sheet, Transgender Sexual and Reproductive Health: Unmet Needs and Barriers to Care.  The full fact sheet will include policy recommendations for the medical community to improve the delivery of health care. Join our mailing list to get your copy of the final fact sheet.

Key facts on sexual and reproductive health for transgender people:

1. Transgender people may have sexual partners who are men, women, or both. A transgender person’s partners or sexual history cannot be assumed from their gender identity or the gender they were assigned at birth.

2. Transgender people need preventive health screenings. Standard preventive health screenings are generally recommended for the body parts a patient has regardless of that patient’s gender identity, including breast, cervical, and prostate cancer screenings.

3. Transgender people are at high risk for HIV and other STI infections. According to the CDC, transgender people experience HIV infection at four times the national population level. African-American and Latino/a transgender people are at especially high risk for HIV and other STIs.

4. Many transgender men who have sex with men are at risk for unintended pregnancy as well as STIs. Transgender men who have sex with men report high rates of unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. Some transgender men report being more concerned about pregnancy than HIV and other STIs.

5. Marginalization and abuse increase health risks for transgender people. Transgender people face high rates of social and economic marginalization, as well as high rates of physical and sexual abuse. Transgender and gender nonconforming youth are particularly at risk for sexual abuse and for engaging in commercial or survival sex.

6. Transgender people are often reluctant to seek sexual and reproductive health care. One in three transgender people, and 48% of transgender men, have delayed or avoided preventive health care such as pelvic exams or STI screening out of fear of discrimination or disrespect. One survey reported that half of transgender men did not receive annual pelvic exams. Reasons included discomfort with the physical exam due to gender issues (40%), lack of money or insurance (13%), lack of a medical provider they were comfortable with (13%), and thinking they did not need pelvic exams (7%). Another survey found that transgender teens, including those at risk for unintended pregnancy, were reluctant to go to a family planning clinic.

7. Transgender people lack access to relevant health information. Sexual health education for youth and adults rarely addresses transgender people’s bodies and identities. For example, transgender men who have sex with men report a lack of adequate information about their sexual health at rates as high as 93.8%.

8. Providers often lack appropriate clinical knowledge. While treating transgender patients does not require special expertise, providers often lack basic knowledge about transgender people and their health needs. In a nationwide survey, 50% of transgender people reported having to teach a health care provider about providing appropriate care.

9. Many providers still turn transgender patients away. In national surveys, 19% to 27% of transgender people report being turned away by health care providers who refused to provide care for them. Outright refusals of care occur across all types of providers, including providers of sexual and reproductive health care.

Mar 29, 2012164 notes
Fall Harvest TG/TS/CD Convention → FallHarvest.org

Fall Harvest began several years ago and was originally part of a group called the Mid America Gender Group Information Exchange (MAGGIE). MAGGIE was an alliance of gender support groups in the Midwest United States. Over the years the MAGGIE organization died and it took with them Fall Harvest. In 2001 organizers from the River City Gender Alliance decided to revive the convention and find a permanent home for it in Omaha. Today, Fall Harvest continues as an independent organization but enjoys the close relationship it has with the individuals in the RCGA. Fall Harvest is an annual event held around Halloween. This allows an opportunity for those who are comfortable and those who are not, a chance to go out in public dressed. The following year Fall Harvest became a separate organization.

Most recently Fall Harvest seemed as though it was destined to fall back into obscurity once again! My name is Trisha Lynn and I just did not want to see that happen! I have been attending Fall Harvest for several years now and firmly believe that Fall Harvest can be revived into a Premier Trangendered Conference! I will do my absolute best to make Fall Harvest a Fun, Exciting and Informative Conference and promise that all attendants will leave with Friendships And Memories that will last you a lifetime!

Ladies travel from different parts of the country to experience our mid-west hospitality. From the moment you check in until the time you leave, you will feel like family. FALL HARVEST” is open to anyone who identifies themselves as TransGendered, whether you are a TG, TS, TV, CD, Female to Male, Significant Other or Admirer of the TransGendered population!. Whichever it is, you are very welcome to attend this years convention. Kansas City is a great place to visit and a very accepting community. We offer a professional, affordable weekend getaway and an opportunity for you to develop yourself and lasting friendships. 

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The Harrington Jacket

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The Harrington Jacket is the perfect light-weight spring jacket. And the history behind this particular piece of fashion is quite interesting.

From wikipedia.com

A Harrington jacket is a lightweight waist-length jacket, made of cotton, polyester, wool or suede — usually with traditionally Fraser tartan or check-patterned lining.

The first Harrington-style jackets were made by British clothing companies Grenfell of Burnley, Lancashire and Baracuta of Stockport, Cheshire in the 1930s. As of 2012, Baracuta still makes the same model, the G9. Elvis Presley popularized the Baracuta G9 when he wore it in his 1958 movie King Creole. This style of jacket earned the nickname Harrington because it was worn by the character Rodney Harrington (played by Ryan O’Neal) in the 1960s prime time soap opera Peyton Place.

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Similar to the 1950s United States Ivy League look, the jacket became fashionable in the United Kingdom in the 1960s among mods and skinheads. They again became popular in the late 1970s and early 1980s with skinhead and mod revivalists, as well as with scooterboys. Within those subcultures, Harringtons are often worn with Fred Perry or Ben Sherman shirts. In addition to Baracuta, companies that have made Harrington jackets include: Yves Saint Laurent, Ralph Lauren, Brooks Brothers, Merc London, Fred Perry, Tesco, Izod, Ben Sherman, Lacoste, Lyle and Scott, Lonsdale and Warrior Clothing.

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In 2007, to celebrate the 70th anniversary of its brand, Baracuta released three special edition G9 jackets with quotes by Presley, Steve McQueen and Frank Sinatra — all of them frequent wearers of the Harrington — printed on the lining.

Mar 28, 201226 notes
Hey guys I'm having a lot of issues with my height lately mostly because it's causing people to question whether I'm "actually male" or not. Are there any ways to increase my height or at least make it look like I'm taller? I've heard that working out helps, but for some reason I feel like the added mass just weighs some guys down even more. Is there a peak to body proportions I can aim for for height? Also, I know there isn't much hope if my plates have fused. What about chiropractics (spine)?

Zak: Dealing with shorter stature can be difficult for trans* guys, particularly since masculinity and maturity are associated with height in our culture. However, it is important to point out that there are a lot of cisgender men who are also dissatisfied with their height, a whole lot of them. I was also really insecure about my height, but have felt significantly better about it since I met a couple of guys on campus who are my height or shorter, so it’s good to keep in mind that there are definitely cis guys out there who are pretty short. Being read as male and as an adult, even if you’re much shorter, is likelier to get easier if you develop other clear indicators of those statuses (for instance, grow a beard, get more muscular, dress in a more mature manner, etc.) so that is another thing to do that can improve this without changing your height or trying to appear taller. 

Having said that, yeah, working out can sometimes help improve your posture and therefore maximize your height. Exercising your core particularly can help, so yoga is a good option for this. You can also get lifts to put in your shoes to help you appear taller, or dress in a way that elongates your body. If nothing else, try to stand a little straighter. Chiropractics might help with your posture, but a little simple, at-home work would be significantly cheaper and, unless you have serious problems with posture, you probably don’t need the help of a professional. 

Mar 28, 20125 notes
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More Advice for Dealing with Dysphoria  → neutrois.me
Mar 27, 201244 notes
#dysphoria
My partner was illegally on testosterone because he didn't have access to health care. He had a lot of bad side effects and went off of it. Recently he was able to get a diagnosis and start testosterone again legally, but today his insurance company said they will not cover it. This is a huge oversimplification of the long & difficult process of having untreated GID for him but we're pretty much out of options. How do transguys w/o health care/access deal with it? We don't know what to do.

Zak: I’m sorry your partner had to go through that frustrating and difficult situation. Testosterone can be pretty expensive without insurance, though buying from online pharmacies can keep the price down a bit. A lot of guys use strohecker’s online pharmacy, where a 10 ml vial is around 60 dollars, which depending on his dose would last him for several months. 

In regard to doctors and obtaining a script affordably without health insurance, clinics like Planned Parenthood are really the only option I can think of. That can be particularly difficult, since not everyone has resources like that in their area and so getting access to those resources can be very expensive. In general transition is expensive and it is difficult to get access to therapy, doctors, HRT, and surgery. 

Mar 27, 20129 notes
#testosterone
How to Find a Quality Barber → everyguyed.com
Summary

We’ll keep this simple, because that’s what your barbershop experience should be.

  • Opt for a place that’s busy. You might have to work to get an appointment, but odds are your cut will be one of quality
  • You don’t always get what you pay for. A simple barbershop cut should fall between $20-40, any more and you’re paying for atmosphere
  • You get the cut you ask for, so communicate with your barber and let them know exactly what you want. They’re skilled with shears, they aren’t mind-readers
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