January 2012
Anonymous asked: I have only recently figured out my trans* status, and I am very easy-going about it. I feel very well-adjusted, and don't plan at this time to take hormones or go through surgeries. I am, however, interested in talking with a therapist. I don't have insurance, and I only work part-time (soon to be no-time). I'm just curious to see if there is a website that lists affordable...
December 2011
“Using ‘gay and lesbian’ as a phrase that’s supposed to include the whole queer...”
– Lindasusan Ulrich, bisexual-identified LGBTQ+ activist and principal author & editor of the 2011 San Francisco Human Rights Commission report “Bisexual Invisibility: Impacts and Recommendations” (via bialogue-group)
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Anonymous asked: is it normal for dysphoria to worsen the farther one is in transition? i'm 2 years on t and 1 year post-op, and i still hate my body.
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Rules of Fit For Men's Shirts →
This is important because, since a lot of us are short, a lot of us end up wearing oversized shirts. Those that don’t often end up wearing shirts that are too short or too tight. Knowing these guidelines can help you find the perfect fit.
Anonymous asked: I'm planning on top surgery, and found out that my health insurance is probably going to cover it. Any suggestions out there for founding out what surgeons will work with insurance?
Anonymous asked: Is it problematic that I say my attraction to gay cis women and queer transmen is more of a same-sex attraction? I'm a FAAB genderqueer and I'm attracted to people regardless of their gender identity but sexually I greatly prefer people with vaginas.
Anonymous asked: what do you have to do to get you gender on your ID changed? like do you have to get bottom surgery for it to be changed?
Anonymous asked: Are there any contraceptive methods other than barrier or sterilization available that won't conflict with testosterone therapy? STIs are a nonissue for my husband and I (we've both been tested). We currently rely on oral contraception which clearly won't be an option when I start T.
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On Partial Transition and/or Transitioning without...
Recently we’ve received a lot of questions about partial transition and/or transitioning without identifying as male or transgender. Neither of us are medical doctors or have personal experience with partial transition, but we know of a few people who have undergone this experience and thought we’d share what we do know about it.
1. You CAN get top surgery without having been on...
Anonymous asked: Do you know of any active online forum for transpeople and their family/friends? Thank you for any help.
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Anonymous asked: I'm still in high school, but I have been thinking recently about going beyond just top-surgery. However, I'm still not sure on whether or not I want to try using T. Is it possible to go through with the complete sex reassignment surgery and not use T, or is that not an option?
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Anonymous asked: Okay so I've been dating a trans guy and we were talking about having kids, and I wanted to have one of his(like an egg transplant) but he's going to start T soon, will that make his eggs unfertile? Is there anyway that they can be preserved or something?
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Ten Things Transgender Persons Should Discuss With... →
Many of these apply to ANYONE (STDs, health history, etc.). It’s important to remember, though, that even if you think it’s awkward that it is important to share these things with your doctor in order to ensure you receive proper medical care.
Anonymous asked: I identify as queer (cis-woman) and I identify as an ally to the LGBTQ* community. I believe you can be part of any community and still be an ally. Over the last year many people in my circle have come out as trans*. I am newly single. My friends know I identify as queer and not lesbian. I find that I am not sexually attracted to transmen. I respect them as men and my sexual preference gravitates...
Anonymous asked: Since natal males are less flexible than natal females, does testosterone make you less flexible? I'm a martial artist and it's very important that I have flexibility.
Anonymous asked: I wish I could properly introduce myself, but because of this specific submission, I'd rather remain anonymous. I've been in a relationship with a woman for a little over half a year now. I love her and am very happy with her, but.. since starting my physical transition 10 months ago, I have started to find interest in men. Not romantically, just sexually. I want to experiment, I NEED...
Anonymous asked: I don't identify as male or trans, but experience gender and body dysphoria. My doctor thinks I'm trans, but I fear that I won't be able to get T if I tell her I'm not male. What should I do?
Style Tips for College Men to Upgrade His Style
zincandi:
Upgrade #1: T-Shirt to Polo
Upgrade #2: Sweatshirt to Sweater
The Polo Style Sweater – Very similar in style to the polo shirt, this knitted sweater is usually lightweight and a piece that can be worn with only an undershirt as it comes with its own collar.
Cardigan Sweater – A button or zipped front, cardigans come in a wide variety of styles and colors. You’ll find them made...
Anonymous asked: My doctor only ordered me a 3cc syringe needle 22g 1/2 it's just one whole needle. I'm suppose to draw the T out with that and inject with it too?..He sent me 12 needles? Or do I use one to draw and then just open up a new one?
Anonymous asked: I recently begun seeing someone new and I haven't gotten tested for STDs since my last sexual partner. The last time that I got checked out for all of that I got a full pelvic exam which is not something that I'd like to repeat for as long as I can put it off. Is it possible to get tested for everything without having the full exam, or at least not involving the doc gettin' all up...
wiseformyyears asked: Hello. I'm 13 at the moment, I don't know if I want to go on T. Even if I did, I know I'm underqge. I'm in Australia- do I need any letters or anything from a therapist about hormone blockers? Thanks.
LGBT Student Scholarship Database →
gqid:
The above link is for the Human Rights Campaign’s comprehensive scholarship database. If anyone knows of any scholarships for queer students that has an upcoming or 2012 deadline, please let me know!
Anonymous asked: The person you reblogged the "A Boi's Life" video appears to be transphobic. I'm not sure what to make of some of the posts of their blog. Just an fyi.
Anonymous asked: Is there a difference between women's and men's jeans? I have to get new pants today with my mom, and probably will have to get girls jeans. If they aren't skinny will they hinder my ability to pass?
Anonymous asked: Hi Guys! Do you have any advice on buying a strap-on and harness? Those things are expensive, so I wouldn't want to waste money on the wrong product. I am looking for something that will feel like an extension of myself, of my own front parts, if that is possible. I am pre-everything and I am attracted to men. Any pointers?
Anonymous asked: I am trans* and have been keeping this from my father (only family) for months, and it is starting to drive me insane. He is very open-minded, and I know for sure he would be accepting, and try to help in any way possible. The reason I haven't told is that we a broke. We can't even afford therapy. I hate being a burden. Any advice on how I can tell my dad to start using the right...
A Fun and Helpful Guide for Trans*youth Seeking... →
Anonymous asked: i'm not sure if this'll really make sense, but do you know of any resources or personal blogs involving trans* people who are mid- or post-transition and dealing with depression or other mood disorders? i realise that this is oddly specific, but this is my situation and it would be quite nice to be able to relate to others.
Anonymous asked: Do you have any tips about overcoming needle problems? I'm over one year on T, and recently started having panic attacks with my shot. I'm planning on changing to patches once I finish this vial (in 4 months or so). Is it possible to change method while having almost a full vial, or is it hard/impossible because it's a controlled substance?
unicornsandtruckerhats asked: Is the name of this blog a play on the Art of Manliness site? Are they in any way related? Is AOM at all trans-focused? Wait, crap, that's three questions. :P
Anonymous asked: So, in a couple of months, I wanna go on T. Do I immediately contact an endo and ask them if I can start T? Or should I call my doctor and ask if I can get T through her? (I'm not sure if my doctor is trans friendly or not or if the facility itself is. It's Sun Valley Family Care, by the way.) Would I just have to bring a T letter with me if my doctor considers it? (note: I'll be 18...
Anonymous asked: This is probably a pretty bizarre question to ask, but is there any kind of book you would recommend that's sort of a how-to on how to do certain "masculine" things? Like how to change oil in a car, fix certain things, barbecue, ect. I know I can look these things up online if I really have to but I'm more of a book person and it'd be nice to have that all together.
Anonymous asked: I'm about to buy a tri-top binder from underworks and was wondering what you guys thought about the product? like, would it be worth the money? and is it a good product or should I look into a different type or style?
For Transgender Detainees, a Jail Policy Offers... →
From the article:
“Also in March, Cook County Jail instituted a new policy for detainees like Maribel, who either identify themselves as transgender or are identified by the jail’s medical staff as having gender-identity disorder, the formal diagnosis for those who feel at odds with their sex at birth.
Under the policy, which covers procedures for housing, clothing, showering, grooming,...
Anonymous asked: Hello <3 This is a random and useless message from a cis straight girl "lucky" enough - although this word is despicable, I am aware that there are so many issues I will never have to deal with - to be naturally what society expected. I don't even remember how I found out about this blog, but I have spent over an hour on it and really wanted to say that I am immensely impressed...
Anonymous asked: Before you guys came out as trans*, how did you deal with people using pronouns etc. that didn't describe you? I'm unable to come out right now and I am hurt and upset when people misgender me, even though they don't have a way of knowing any better.
Happy Hanukkah, Merry Christmas, Hope You Had a...
Zak’s family’s Hanukkah. There aren’t any good pictures because Zak’s mom had surgery right after Thanksgiving and this year’s celebration was pretty hectic. There aren’t any presents left, but Zak will be spending the last two nights of Hanukkah watching the Rugrats Hanukkah special and An American Tale with his niece.
Adrian and his sisters in front of...